Shonda couldn't understand why she kept thinking about her co-worker Ryan.
He wasn't her type.
In fact he was shorter than she.
Maybe it was because her husband spent
too much time at work, tubit.com review and when he did come home he rarely spoke to
her.
The thought of her husband, Jeffery
cheating often crossed her mind.
But instead of thinking of the
worst, Shonda often escaped to the bedroom of Ryan... at least in her mind.
Is this considered cheating?
When you hear the word,
"Adultery" what comes tubit.com to mind:
the man or the woman?
To be honest, the man often comes
to my mind.
But the irony is that just as many
women can be guilty of adultery, even if it's not the same type of adultery.
Yes, there is more than one type of
adultery!
And often when it comes to the
woman committing adultery, it begins in her mind. This is called mental
adultery. It's when the mind daydreams or fantasizes about being connected with
another man in same way, shape, or form.
Mental adultery doesn't even
require touching a man, and neither does the second type - emotional adultery.
Emotional adultery occurs when a
woman opens her heart to another man through intimate conversation, touching,
or maybe tubit even
kissing. However, both of these are different from the most well-known type,
physical adultery, the act of sexual intercourse outside of the marriage
relationship.
Often the body follows the mind and
the heart of a woman. She's often vulnerable to adultery when she feels lonely
or neglected by her husband. She may not want to feel a sense of excitement,
but she's often weak for the words of a man when she feels empty in her
marriage.
Shonda, who we mentioned earlier
never took the time to talk with her husband or even a trusted female friend
about her feelings for Ryan. And she didn't seek out any other resources to
help her deal with her struggle to overcome her feelings for Ryan.
As a result, Shonda found herself
eating lunch with Ryan on a weekly basis.
After about three months of
intimate conversation, Shonda found herself in a hotel room with Ryan!
And a year later Shonda got
pregnant... by Ryan.
Her husband found out, divorced
her, and Shonda was left without a husband. And Ryan left her alone with their
baby.
While most people focus on physical
adultery, there are two other types of adultery, neither of which require
touching another person.
However, all three types of
adultery can destroy your marriage. Adultery often begins with the mind, and
can progress to emotional, then the physical.
The key is to prevent adultery when
the thought hits your mind so you won't become like Shonda and lose your
marriage.
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